well the good news is I'm not freaking out about the bike:)
I lOVE the smooth ride of the carbon - and it feels great climbing- maybe I'm just imagining it but what the heck

( I did get the tribars cut to a better length - (Thanks Brock)
today riding in the wind down from predator I thought ohh- maybe is it a little twitchy but then Mel said she was feeling some big pushes too..so overall it is great

I guess I am used to bikes not being perfect with my unproportional femur length

Thanks again for your help- really appreciate it!!!